• Denial (this isn't happening to me!)
  
• Anger (why is this happening to me?)
  
• Bargaining (I promise I'll be a better person if...)
  
• Depression (I don't care anymore)
  
• Acceptance (I'm ready for whatever comes)

or......

• Numbness (mechanical functioning and social insulation)
  
• Disorganization (intensely painful feelings of loss)
  
• Reorganization (re-entry into a more 'normal' social life.)